Because closeness doesn’t just happen
You love each other, but life gets busy, and screens take over. We get it, and we're here to change that.
We've helped over 300,000 couples nationwide reconnect and shake things up through guided experiences, expert-backed advice, and curated intimacy essentials.
Arya is modern intimacy made easy: no therapy talk. no awkwardness - just real connection, beautifully designed.
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Personal Guidance
Your Intimacy Concierge is like a personal coach for your relationship, helping you explore connection, curiosity, and find new ways to enjoy each other… everywhere.
Think of it as your shortcut to effortless closeness, without the awkward guessing. Chat privately with your own intimacy concierge about your desires and we'll take it from there.
Created by experts, adored by couples
With intimacy educator Shan Boodram and relationship scientist Dr. Pepper Schwartz, Arya brings research, empathy, and a playful edge to modern relationships. Get full access to Arya’s world of guided connection. Inside, you’ll find "Scenes": short, interactive journeys designed for two. Each Scene blends conversation, reflection, and playful challenges to help you explore attraction, trust, and communication in new ways. Some are flirty, some are deep, all are real.
We add new content every month
Complete the experience
Beyond expert-led guidance, we’ve included curated products from brands that actually get intimacy. Yes, this is part of your membership! Every item is hand-tested to ensure it perfectly supports your guided touch practices and expert insights- all delivered in a beautiful box straight to your door. Fully discreet packaging is available as an add-on at checkout.
What 300,000+ Members Are Saying
"I have been really stressed at work and I just wanted a place to let go of my mind and not think so I took a submissive role. Amazing. Literal perfection and the hottest night we have had in a long while."
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Frequently
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Questions
What's included in Arya's membership? Is it a subscription box?
Every Arya experience is a guided journey for you and your partner. You’ll receive a curated 'Scene' featuring expert written guidance, educational videos, and premium physical items delivered to your home. You also get unlimited access to your personal concierge for any questions along the way. It’s everything you need to explore your desires—all you have to do is open the box
How much does it cost?
Plans start as low as $29.95 per month when billed annually, with 1-, 3-, and 6-month plans also available. The price includes both partner accounts. For the full experience and best results, we recommend committing to at least 3 months. Every plan includes concierge support, guided content, mood setters, scenes, and curated products shipped to your home.
My partner and I are into different things and have different desires, will this still work for us?
It's super normal for you and your partner to have different desires! Arya will help you create a space where you both feel comfortable talking about your desires. If you partner likes something you're not into (or vice versa); we'll help you find a way to explore them in ways that benefit both of you.
Is your packaging discreet?
We offer unbranded packaging for an additional fee. The shipping label, which is the white sticker on the box that shows who sent it and who will receive it, will still list our office as the sender.
I rarely talk to my partner about sex and intimacy, can you help with that?
This is why Arya exists! We're completely confidential, judgement-free, and here to guide you through any conversations about sex, desires, and intimacy. Arya will give you helpful hints and conversation starters to have open conversations with your partner.
Is Arya only for couples?
Each Arya Scene is designed for a couple to participate, and that will be the best way to enjoy the full experience. Introducing your partner to Arya will deepen your experience and add value to your intimate lives.
Is chatting with the concierge anonymous?
Yes. You can use a nickname, and your info stays private. We never share or sell your data. It’s just you, your partner, and your concierge.
Does Arya use AI or real humans to answer my questions?
We use both, and we designed it that way on purpose. Arya’s AI helps guide, suggest, and gently nudge when you are exploring ideas, seeking inspiration, or navigating lighter questions around connection and intimacy. When things become more personal, emotionally charged, or nuanced, Arya makes aure a real human expert will answer. In short: AI supports the journey, and real experts step in where it matters most, so you always get thoughtful, safe, human-centered guidance.
Do I get to choose my box items each month?
Nope, your Arya Box is curated by our in-house sexologists. They've selected premium products to elevate your Scene experience.
Is Arya going to send me tons of toys every month?
Yes and no. This depends on what you consider a toy :) You'll receive items that are hand-selected to enhance your play. This can range from vibrators to lubes, to impact toys or devices you've never even thought of buying. Each Arya Box will have the exact products you need to experiene your monthly Scene together.
We've been together for so long, what can we possible gain from Arya?
Morel adventure! 1 out of 4 people who join Arya are looking for ways to make sex more adventerous. The best way to spice up your bedroom is by exploring novel sexual experiences and Arya is here to give you a boost in your sensual exploration.
You keep mentioning the word 'scenes'. I'm not sure I understand what it means.
Scenes are guided, interactive journeys for two. They blend meaningful conversation, moments of reflection, and playful challenges that help you explore attraction, trust, and communication in new ways. Some are flirty, some are deeper, but all of them feel real and designed to bring you closer. Each Scene includes step-by-step guidance, audio-erotica playlists, and carefully chosen items to support your exploration.
