Connection shouldn’t feel like homework.

Good thing we made it fun.

Adore

Become great at making her feel good.

Taste

Let's talk about what you really want.

Sense

Slow down and rediscover touch that connects you.

Heat

Warm wax. Cool touch. Build trust through new sensations.

Muse

Creative play for couples.
Paint, laugh, connect.

Ready to learn?

Connection shouldn’t feel like homework.

Good thing we made it fun.

Adore

Become great at making her feel good.

Taste

Let's talk about what you really want.

Sense

Slow down and rediscover touch that connects you.

Heat

Warm wax. Cool touch. Build trust through new sensations.

Muse

Creative play for couples.
Paint, laugh, connect.

Ready to learn?

Because closeness doesn’t just happen

In every relationship, there’s a spark. But life, kids, and screens can dim it.

Arya helps couples reconnect through guided experiences, expert-backed advice, and curated intimacy essentials.

No therapy talk. No awkwardness. Just real connection, beautifully designed.

Personal Guidance

Your Intimacy Concierge is like a personal coach for your relationship, helping you explore connection, curiosity, and find new ways to enjoy each other… everywhere.

Think of it as your shortcut to effortless closeness, without the awkward guessing. Chat privately with your own intimacy concierge about your desires and we'll take it from there.

Created by experts, adored by couples

With intimacy educator Shan Boodram and relationship scientist Dr. Pepper Schwartz, Arya brings research, empathy, and a playful edge to modern relationships. Get full access to Arya’s world of guided connection. Inside, you’ll find "Scenes": short, interactive journeys designed for two. Each Scene blends conversation, reflection, and playful challenges to help you explore attraction, trust, and communication in new ways. Some are flirty, some are deep, all are real.

We add new content every month

Discreetly Delivered

You’ll also unlock expert insights from relationship educators, guided touch practices, and curated recommendations from brands that actually get intimacy. It’s everything you need to keep your connection evolving. No awkward therapy talk, just modern intimacy made easy.

Our team

Meet your Concierge

Chief Intimacy Officer

Shan Boodram

You may know her from Netflix’s Too Hot to Handle - but Shan’s expertise runs much deeper than reality TV. With 15+ years in the field, she’s a certified sexologist who blends science-backed sex education with cultural confidence to help couples spark (and keep) the chemistry in and out of the bedroom.

In-House Sexologist

Tugce Balik

Tugce blends Western science with Eastern traditions to help people heal, reconnect, and feel at home in their bodies—and with each other. She’s a certified Tibetan Tantra practitioner and an American Board-Certified Sexologist, with a focus on healing through embodiment.

Relationship Science

Nicholas Velotta

Nicholas is a relationship researcher and sexologist focused on how intimacy, gender, and sexuality shape our everyday lives. His superpower? Turning complex intimacy research into warm, inclusive conversations you actually want to have.

Author and Sociologist

Ph.D. Pepper Schwartz

Dr. Pepper Schwartz is a renowned sexologist and sociologist at the University of Washington, and a frequent media expert on relationships, notably on “Married at First Sight”.

Author, Fantasies and Scenes

Karolina Wilde

Karolina is a sex-positive writer with a love for big emotions and bold storytelling. Her debut novel, House of Pain, kicks off a dark, steamy trilogy, and the feedback she got made her realize that people, especially women, are keen yet sometimes reserved to make their fantasies come true.

Head of Concierge Team

Chloe J.

Chloe is a mom of two, the heart behind Arya’s Concierge team, and a former Pilates teacher. She met dozens of women before, during, and after birth, and heard how hard it is to gain your body confidence back, as well as the intimacy you once shared. She knows how messy, beautiful, and ever-evolving relationships can be, and she’s here to make it feel a little easier to talk about.

Scenes and Products Curato

Athena Gayle

She brings a smart, sex-positive voice to a space that’s often full of noise—helping people feel more seen, curious, and informed in their sexuality. She’s also deeply involved in the kink community and passionate about building spaces where everyone feels welcome.

Our team

Meet your Concierge

Chief Intimacy Officer

Shan Boodram

You may know her from Netflix’s Too Hot to Handle - but Shan’s expertise runs much deeper than reality TV. With 15+ years in the field, she’s a certified sexologist who blends science-backed sex education with cultural confidence to help couples spark (and keep) the chemistry in and out of the bedroom.

In-House Sexologist

Tugce Balik

Tugce blends Western science with Eastern traditions to help people heal, reconnect, and feel at home in their bodies—and with each other. She’s a certified Tibetan Tantra practitioner and an American Board-Certified Sexologist, with a focus on healing through embodiment.

Relationship Science

Nicholas Velotta

Nicholas is a relationship researcher and sexologist focused on how intimacy, gender, and sexuality shape our everyday lives. His superpower? Turning complex intimacy research into warm, inclusive conversations you actually want to have.

Author and Sociologist

Ph.D. Pepper Schwartz

Dr. Pepper Schwartz is a renowned sexologist and sociologist at the University of Washington, and a frequent media expert on relationships, notably on “Married at First Sight”.

Author, Fantasies and Scenes

Karolina Wilde

Karolina is a sex-positive writer with a love for big emotions and bold storytelling. Her debut novel, House of Pain, kicks off a dark, steamy trilogy, and the feedback she got made her realize that people, especially women, are keen yet sometimes reserved to make their fantasies come true.

Head of Concierge Team

Chloe J.

Chloe is a mom of two, the heart behind Arya’s Concierge team, and a former Pilates teacher. She met dozens of women before, during, and after birth, and heard how hard it is to gain your body confidence back, as well as the intimacy you once shared. She knows how messy, beautiful, and ever-evolving relationships can be, and she’s here to make it feel a little easier to talk about.

Scenes and Products Curato

Athena Gayle

She brings a smart, sex-positive voice to a space that’s often full of noise—helping people feel more seen, curious, and informed in their sexuality. She’s also deeply involved in the kink community and passionate about building spaces where everyone feels welcome.

300,000+ members Are Saying

"I have been really stressed at work and I just wanted a place to let go of my mind and not think so I took a submissive role. Amazing. Literal perfection and the hottest night we have had in a long while."

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Frequently
Asked
Questions

Is this just a subscription box?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

Is Arya only for couples?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

Is your packaging discreet?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

Is chatting with the concierge anonymous?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

We want to experience more kink, is this box too vanilla for us?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

I rarely talk to my partner about sex and intimacy, can you help with that?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

My partner and I are into different things and have different desires, will this still work for us?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

Is this just a subscription box?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

Is Arya only for couples?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

Is your packaging discreet?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

Is chatting with the concierge anonymous?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

We want to experience more kink, is this box too vanilla for us?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

I rarely talk to my partner about sex and intimacy, can you help with that?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

My partner and I are into different things and have different desires, will this still work for us?

Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!

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What's Your Persona?

Our friends say we're glowing.
Honestly, they are right 🔥

Take our 5-minute quiz and uncover
your intimate self...